kenzo wrote:I dunno what you're on, Ko... maybe it's a Canada-thing, or a young-people-thing. For me and where/when I grew up, being a nerd was less a 'how much you knew' thing, and more of a lifestyle. Nerds were the dorks, the social pariahs, the weak dweebs on campus. They were hopelessly awkward - lacking in style, flair, and any social graces. Nerds were that stereotype straight out of Revenge of the Nerds.
Geeks on the other hand, is just a word for someone who is hopelessly infatuated with their hobby or whatnot, not a social group or anything. It's just a label you put onto someone who know way too much or was way too enthusiastic about a certain subject. So you had tech-geeks, band-geeks, theater-geeks, sports-geeks, math-geeks, and so on. Having the label 'geek' back in school wasn't necessarily a bad thing, or the kiss of death is social circles - it just meant you knew a fuck-ton about something very specific. Me and most of my friends in High School were geeks of some kind or another, and we ruled that school.
Dude did you listen to the podcast yet. That was who I was agreeing with. They said that a geek was someone who had a very specific focus/obsession on one thing (kind of similar here although for the most part it was a connotation associated more with technology)
Nerds however are more intelligent than their peers and have a broad knowledge base. Master Higgins summed it up in this quote.
Milhouse wrote:I'm not a nerd Bart. I'm a geek, nerds are smart.
That said the crossover between Nerds and Geeks has made the two terms almost become synonyms of each other.
Here is an
essay by Paul Graham (programmer who made viaWeb) detailing why nerds are unpopular citing their above average intelligence and knowledge compared to their peers.
Although I will say growing up myself and some other nerds who I'm friends with weren't persecuted for being smart because we were all fairly charismatic along with being physically imposing [even if we were all didn't really like violence] and although some of our peers wouldn't understand why we enjoyed learning things outside of what was needed to pass and get a decent mark we were never laughed at for this. This is likely somewhat skewed as the size of my school was somewhat small so everyone was fairly close knit together. (amount of students in each grade was maybe 80 to 100 or so) The only people who were really social outcasts was hardcore goths who were very inward looking. This kind of changed towards the end of high school with only the most anti-social of that group being left alone in their own little clique. Everyone still had a group of closer friends but for the most part all of us were friends with each other on some level.
This site also describes nerds as being intelligent (again limiting it to the relams of science, technology and math)
Whatis.com again associates nerds with intelligence along with social awkwardness.
If you want to talk about a fucked up definition
here is a New York Times article about nerds. The author talks to a linguist from UoC Santa Barbara about what is a nerd. (The linguist tries to boil it all down to race and the idea that nerds are all hyperwhite. Also included is the assumption that the majority of African-American youths want to grow up to be gangsters and rappers [I'm not super knowledgable on that last particular subject but I think it's an exaggeration/misconception on the linguist's part])
I think that your definition is the one that is quite different than everyone else's definition seeing as you don't associate nerds with some degree of higher than average intelligence.
Also just for kicks
here's what Spike found when asking cosplayers at Comic Con what is a nerd. Although it kind of just led to people saying if the con-goers should be called nerds or not instead of a real definition. (you should click on it anyway at 1:55 and 2:27 two hot nerds talk about why they embrace being called a nerd)